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Welcome to I Do’s With David! I’m David Greenspoon and founded I Do’s With David to serve couples who are secular or “spiritual but not religious” and seeking a customized, beautiful wedding ceremony filled with warmth, compassion, and just a touch of humor. I Do’s With David delivers deep interpersonal and pastoral skills, a refined appreciation for crafting beautiful and meaningful life-cycle ceremonies, and extensive experience officiating at life cycle events. Every couple will find a welcoming experience with I Do’s With David. We respect the human dignity of all our clients and treat everyone with respect and courtesy.
I Do’s With David is a US Navy veteran-owned, LGBTQ+ friendly, non-religious wedding officiant service based in Washington, D.C. and the larger DMV area, but travels nearly anywhere! Before founding I Do’s With David’s parent company, I spent a 25+ year career working as a member of the clergy, primarily serving in congregations. That service also included 7 years as a Navy Reserve Chaplain, beyond the 4 years I served during my enlistment before college.
Officiant Services
Secular & “Spiritual but not Religious” Celebrations
Many couples are looking for either a secular celebration, or spiritual ceremonies not defined by any one faith tradition. Couples are regularly thrilled with beautiful ceremonies that are authentic to their values and needs that will be remembered for a lifetime.
License Signing Service for Virginia, District of Columbia & West Virginia
Weddings in the Commonwealth of Virginia, District of Columbia or West Virgina need a registered officiant to sign a marriage license. I Do’s With David is available to help couples with legal registration of the marriage when a couple’s officiant is not duly registered.
DC Wine Country Elopements & Micro-Weddings
I Do’s With David is delighted to be in partnership with some of the DC Wine Country’s best vendors for unique elopement and micro-wedding packages. Elope Loudoun, "the only stop you need to a gorgeous and stress-free elopement."
Renewal Ceremonies
The reasons for renewing the commitment of a relationship are as varied as the couples who seek them. Carving a specific spiritual response to each couple’s specific spiritual situation is part of what makes this service far more than a typical “renewal of vows.
In The News
Middleburg Life - February 2026
THE MARRYING KIND: Hunt Country Celebrants Share Their Stories
— Written by Bill Kent
Brides & Weddings - July 2025
Selecting a Celebrant for your Secular or Religiously Neutral Wedding
— Written by David Greenspoon
Officiant Services & Rates
Full Ceremony
Officiation including 1 hour of planning meeting in 2 half-hour segments plus any required expenses. $950
Weekday rates Mon-Thurs $750.
Micro Wedding (30 attendees or less)
Weekdays Mon-Thurs includes one 1/2 hour planing meeting. $500
Included Services
- Coordination with vendors connected to the ceremony
- Travel within 50 miles/1 hour of Washington DC
Extra Services
- Planning meetings $75.00/half-hour
- Rehearsals (if available) $125.00/hr. +travel
- Travel $50/hr. 3 hour minimum in Northern/Central Virginia and central Maryland
Virginia, D.C. & West Virginia License Signing Services
The ‘Day Of’ service supports your choice of an unregistered officiant. We will arrange to meet and have your secular marriage license signed.
- Loudoun County, VA $250
- Fairfax County, VA $275
- District of Columbia $275
- Jefferson County, WVA $275
- All other VA locales & West Virginia: Please inquire.
5 Star Reviews
All of our guests were raving about the ceremony he put together, and my husband and I were very happy with it.
—Jacquelyn, Northern VA
He truly captured the essence of our relationship while adding just the right amount of humor and heart, creating a ceremony that felt authentic to us.
—Ashley, Arlington, VA
David was wonderfully easy to work with and brought a great sense of calm and humour to our little wedding. I would definitely recommend to anyone needing a professional and kind officiant.
—Ariel, Purcellville, VA
David is a true professional. We were renewing our vows after 41 years of marriage. We would highly recommend him to any and all couples wanting to organize a special marriage ceremony including renewing of vows.
—Kyle & Lynn, Ohio
David was the officiant for my elopement and I couldn't have been happier. It was tailored perfectly to us. Thank you David!
—Christine, Northern VA
David was a great officiant for our wedding. If you’re looking for an officiant who combines skill, organization, and compassion, we recommend David.
—Federico, Alexandria, VA
David is an awesome wedding officiant, and we were so happy he was apart of our special day. I would absolutely recommend David to anymore searching for a wedding officiant! Thank you, David!
—Matthew, McLean, VA
Some of our Favorite DMV Venues
Central Maryland
- The Cloisters, Baltimore
- Four Seasons, Baltimore
- Catoctin Mountain Park, Thurmont
- Linwoods Restaurant, Baltimore
- McClintock Distillery, Frederick
Eastern Shore Maryland
- Chesapeake Bay Beach Club, Stevensville
- Kent Island Resort, Stevensville
- Hyatt Regency Chesapeake Bay, Cambridge
Washington D.C.
- The Willard InterContinental Hotel
- Four Seasons, Washington
- St Regis Hotel, Washington
- Ritz Carlton, Washington
- District Winery, Washington
Virginia
- Top of the Town, Arlington
- Crimson Lane Vineyards, Linden
- 2941 Restaurant, Falls Church
- Stone Tower Winery, Leesburg
- L'Auberge Chez Francois, Falls Church
- Luray Cavern, Luray
- Lansdowne Resort, Leesburg
- The Stable at Bluemont, Bluemont
- Shadow Creek Weddings and Events, Purcellville
- The Barn at Brambleton, Brambleton
- Poplar Springs Manor, Warrenton
- Oak Barn at Loyalty, Leesburg
West Virginia
- Mountain Lake Club Harpers Ferry
Contact Us Today!
Let's craft and celebrate the wedding ceremony of your dreams together! I can't wait to meet with you soon!
FAQ's
Will our ceremony be customized?
Absolutely! Each and every ceremony officiated by I Do’s With David is created to reflect your unique identity and values as a couple. You will share that in the course of our conversations, and see it come into form before the big day!
How do we meet?
The convenience of virtual meetings is unbeatable!
Step 1: Make an appointment via https://zcal.co/davidgreenspoon/30min
Step 2: You will automatically receive a link for our Google Meet video conference.
How do we pay you?
Electronic payments via Zelle are preferred. Please inquire for details or other options.
Do you travel?
Absolutely! All travel within an hour of Leesburg, VA is included as part of your service. Regional travel is anything within a two-hour car drive and presumes a three-hour round-trip minimum. See the price chart for more information about regional travel rates. National and international travel options are also available; the details are part of a larger conversation.
Do you have a PA system?
Yes, I Do’s With David has sound amplification for your ceremony covered! I Do’s With David has a smaller, wireless compact PA with Bluetooth and a stand that is perfect for smaller settings or where power is unavailable; a larger, wired Fender PA with speaker stands that can handle large outdoor events; wired mics and stands; and a wireless headset mic. The mics can also be connected into a system provided by a band or DJ.
How do we book?
After our initial complimentary session, a 50% initial payment and your signed and accepted proposal holds your date. The remaining cost, including any additional fee for weddings held more than one hour from Leesburg, VA is due 45 days before your ceremony.
Bookings less than 45 days from the ceremony require total payment up front. I am often available for last-minute bookings! Feel free to inquire if I can meet your scheduled needs.
Do you offer special rates for military members?
It is our privilege to honor active duty and active reserve military with a 10% discount for officiant services.